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When Being NICE Becomes Expensive
With September just around the corner and Quarter 4 approaching, I've been thinking about how often accomplished women make themselves smaller, cheaper or more accommodating than their expertise requires. Recently, I had lunch with a friend who told me about a commission she had undertaken. She had negotiated her services with a client at what she described as a relatively cost-effective price. Then she mentioned something that stopped me. The same client had paid a basic con
Pamela Roberts
Aug 264 min read


THE POWER OF THE PAUSE Why knowing when to stop is a leadership skill
Welcome to August's newsletter July was a productive month. I delivered a Black Oxford Guided Heritage bus tour with students from the University of Alabama, delivered a lecture about public engagement at the Weston Library, and worked with several clients through 1:1 coaching sessions. I’m also now in the final phase of a project I started 18 months ago, so look out for an announcement in September. As we move into August, I’ve noticed that people started to slow down menta
Pamela Roberts
Aug 115 min read


The importance of taking time to STOP, pause, enjoy and celebrate
August isn't just a holiday month. It's an opportunity to reset, reflect and prepare yourself to enter the final quarter with renewed energy, purpose and intention. Joy is central to my coaching practice as both a strategic tool and a leadership strategy. What I have witnessed, and have been guilty of myself over the years, is becoming completely engrossed in the hustle. As soon as I completed one project, it was straight into the next one, the next deadline, without taking t
Pamela Roberts
Aug 32 min read


May Focus: Still Not Winning—What’s Next?
For the past month, I’ve been deep in research on one of the Black scholars I write and lecture about: Christian Frederick Cole, for a new project I’m currently working on — details coming soon. Cole’s story is remarkable. He was the first Black student at Oxford. At the time, there was a very clear, almost mechanical pathway into becoming a barrister: Attend Oxford or Cambridge — he attended University College, Oxford in 1873 ✔ Study classics or law — he achieved an Honours
Pamela Roberts
May 214 min read


“Wow, I Didn’t See That Coming!!": How I Got Side-Swiped and What I Learned February 2026
Most of us don’t expect to get caught out by someone who seems genuine. They’re friendly. Complimentary. They tell you how valuable your work is. They say things like “we’ll definitely work together” and “this is just the start.” You relax a little. You assume goodwill. That’s often where the trouble starts. Recently, I found myself in a situation where I provided assistance and insight to someone who then used my work as a case study for a bid. The bid was successful. I w
Pamela Roberts
Feb 22 min read


The 3-Letter Word Every New Entrepreneur Needs but secretly hate hearing....
The 3-Letter Word Every New Entrepreneur Needs but secretly hate hearing....
Pamela Roberts
Nov 23, 20252 min read


Reframing the Hyper-Achiever: How to pursue excellence without burning out
During a recent exercise in self-awareness, I identified the hyper-achiever as one of my dominant saboteurs. It resonated with me on a...
Pamela Roberts
May 10, 20252 min read


What does launching Oxford's first black heritage guided bus tour and authenticity have in common with the film Cool Runnings?
What does launching Oxford's first black heritage guided bus tour and authenticity have in common with the film Cool Runnings?
Pamela Roberts
Apr 21, 20252 min read


Afternoon tea with a difference at Covington & Burlington
Yesterday, I had the honour of presenting Covington & Burling LLP's Black History Month event at their stunning Bishopsgate offices in...
Pamela Roberts
Oct 29, 20241 min read
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